Sunday, December 10, 2006

Confessions of a Facebook Addict

It used to be that, to me, Facebook was just an abstract social phenomenon. Like leg-warmers. Somethding you read about in Sunday Styles(the bling-bling section of the New York Times) but would never do yourself. That changed about two weeks ago, and my life changed with it. If not my life, then my productivity level.

Facebook snuck up on me. I made a profile so I could check out some other people's and then I forgot about it. A couple days later I found a "friend request" in my inbox, and it all went downhill from there. I figured this was an up or down proposition: if I was going to have any "friends," I may as well have a bunch. Over the next couple days, I had "friended" at least fifty of my closest friends. Facebook was starting to take over my life. If I was online for any reason, I had to check my profile at least every five minutes. Sometimes I would just sit there, staring at it, and reloading the page to see if I had any new friends or "wall posts," the Facebook equivalent of comments.

Another thing that struck me about Facebook was the level of narcissisim. Because I didn't have a picture of myself on my computer, I used a Gap icon(you know, tall white letters on a dark blue background) as my profile picture. One of my friends asked me about it, and I jokingly told her that I wasn't self-important enough to plaster pictures of myself all over my Facebook. But I found some truth in that. Facebook is the ideal place for--what's the word for a person who wants other people to look at them? Oh yeah, I forgot, Paris Hilton. With Facebook, people can broadcast pictures of themselves, their political views, and favorite books, movies, and music, to the world. In other words, it would be an ideal way of keeping in touch with your grandmother. Except I don't think your Facebook friends, unlike your grandmother, want to see pictures of you on the toliet.

Another way Facebook users can brodcast themselves to the world is their "status." The "status" line starts out "[Your name here] is" and can then be filled in with trite phrases provided by Facebook("working," "in class," "sleeping," et cetera), or something of your own design. Right now, mine says "Amy is letting the good times roll." Thinking of what to put in your status is another way that Facebook eats up time that could be spent on more productive things. Like talking to people in real life.

Facebook is indeed part of a larger social phenomenon. Like YouTube, Facebook is a way that people can share their lives with the world. Except in Facebook's case, it's inane trivia instead of high-quality, educational videos of cats getting baths. Like MySpace and Friendster, Facebook is a social networking site. A social scientist would probably say that sites like these are symptoms of people's need to feel validated and important. But I'm not telling you how many times I checked my Facebook while writing this.

13 Comments:

Blogger Cal Skinner said...

So, how does one find your site?

12:35 PM  
Anonymous Aakash said...

Amy, I was just thinking, a few hours earlier, about how Facebook has changed things so much, for those of involved in politics, and in college activities. It is such a useful networking, recruitment, and communication tool.

Do you want to send Mr. Skinner a Facebook joining invite, or should I?
:-)

2:13 AM  
Blogger Amy Allen said...

Aakash,
I agree. It is a good way to waste time, too. ; )
Good idea, but there might be an age limit on Facebook. Just kidding, Mr. Skinner. ; )

11:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Perhaps AARP could start a Facebook portal for those of us who are "eligible" for that organization, to put it politely. Think of the possibilities! Status: "[Your name] is taking a nap," or "thinking about buying a new Buick." Persons could post old photos of themselves alongside more recent shots. Health tips could be exchanged!

11:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Then there are some of us paranoid types who only got on one sociel networking site and have since begun to consider it a mistake. Places like myspace are viewable to anyone, I have spent hours reading the myspace pages of girls from my old school and am suprised at what I found. For instance, if I found one of my semiformer friends I could find maybe five more simply bu reading her friends list and people that had posted to her page (this is all without a myspace account). I was also suprised to discover some of them talked about getting drunk, and drugs on their profiles despite the fact that they were under 18. I also do not like the vast amount of information you can find out about people simply by looking on the internet, for a suprise try googleing yourself, it is amazing what you can find and how much people can find on you. In a semirelated train of though their is an interesting article, Murder  on  MySpace [http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/14.12/murderblog.html]. Also, I believe facebook is open to everyone not just .edus now, [http://www.wired.com/wired/archive/14.12/start.html?pg=17]. Well, that was probably long enough but I will start a rant again if I see a post that I have an opinion on (and I have the time). Semper ubi sub ubi.

3:18 PM  
Blogger Levois said...

LOL!!! Yeah Facebook is a very pesky little site. For some it could almost replace real life.

4:54 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ha i found this blog by typing "obiter dictum" in google. Nice.

On a more 'on-topic' note, i've yet to join the 'craze' of myspace and facebook. Specific reasons excluded, it feels like that scene from apocalypto where they're blindly rushing to the volcano, you know how one dude looks at the other and goes "ha this is fun... where are we going?" only to realize it's not so fun at all..
Ha well ok, extreme analogy; but given i'm not a tree-hugger, its like the statement "verily if you follow the Majority of Mankind, you will be misguided."... hmmm food for thought...

and it's only 7:48 AM central time. I need to do my foreign language lab.

Nice blog though -).

Oh and if you want to check it out, cool info: http://www.albumoftheday/facebook

7:51 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i personally loove facebook! sometimes it sucks that everyone pretty much finds out everything about you through there...i go to school and people are saying "did you know that this happened" and i ask how they know and the answer is pretty much always "facebook"

1:45 PM  
Blogger Henny Penny said...

I just set up a facebook profile yesterday and wasn't sure quite what to do with it. But I quickly found college and law school buddies on there and well, figured it out quick.

7:47 PM  
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12:14 AM  
Blogger Antares said...

I was distracted from leaving a comment here by the last entry before mine posted by Anonymous (who needs no introduction). Indeed, it was such a fascinating read I'm sorely tempted to turn it into a Magick River blogpost (but who should I credit?).

What I was going to say, Amy, before that unforeseen orangutan pee digression, is that I chanced upon your blog when Googling "Obiter Dictum" (which happens to be the User ID of a friend who also has a Blogger blog). After reading your Facebook post I had an immediate compulsion to add Amy Allen as a Facebook friend (I'm rather charmed by your writing style!).... Er... may I? ;-)

8:54 AM  
Blogger Cal Skinner said...

Time for you to return and comment on Palin.

2:44 PM  
Blogger joshua said...

I loved your post. I could relate with it. Keep blogging!!

This is Joshua from Israeli Uncensored News

2:11 AM  

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